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Hey good people!!
Its been long since I updated my blog. But you know,when I don't feel 'ít', I just can't write anything! lol I know that I keep telling this but every bit of the next sentence is true. I'm just crazy like that! :P Okay, so today's post is certainly not about my stupidity.(You had probably guessed that considering the large heading but I wanted to mention it anyways..lol)

 The post right here is about the people who accept my tantrums, silliness, mood swings and most  importantly my 'short-temperedness' with ease ( I do 'chill out' after a short while even if I get angry VERY fast.. but lord bless those people!! It can be hard at times :P ) . This post is all about the people who make my life great. Yes,Friends are what i'm talking about...even if you didn't guess it already regarding the cheesy lines :P  Today happens to be THE friendship day , so, I thought what better day could I pick to write about the special folks in my life than this beautiful day.

Friendship for me has always been giving and not expecting a favor in return.. When you go the other way round, you can never gain happiness. At least, that is what I feel. Having said that, I too also cannot always abide by that rule. But, at least I try to. And i think, that makes it worthwhile.

I have made a lot of friends in my life. Among them some drifted away, some just don't care about me (counted as friends because at some point in life they meant a lot to me), some I don't care about, some I respect very much, some who inspire me, some whom I inspire......but most importantly, the remaining ones who are ALWAYS there for me at 'needy' moments :P, love me for who I am, care for me, respect me..and god knows what! When I count the ones in the last category, only a handful come to mind. And that is enough for me because the few who want the best for me are better than the 100+ people who only seem to  care. Trust me, It is soooooo much better.

I have been through a lot of things in life. Sounds a bit awkward when I say it out loud but I have been through many things. A lot is yet to come, I know, but I HAVE been through a variety of problems (Trust me ..I have)  And I couldn't surpass any of it if, my friends didn't support me at that moment.  They were always there to catch me when I fell and to give me a hand to get back to the original phase.

To provide you an example...There were also there to encourage me when I first started writing, which is now an international phenomena ( Russia, USA, Germany, South Korea etc fall under the list of countries that view my blog once in a while if not daily. Amazing stuff, ehh? :D)

Anyways, life as I know is not always great. So, I want to dedicate this post to all my friends which have been there for me when I went though the tough times as well as the fun times. If you people were not there for me , I would not have a shoulder to cry on  during the sad times and laugh my ass off during the awesome moments. Because If It weren't for those moments I wouldn't have anything to remember during the lousy moments in class ;) Having said that, I do hope that I made your life better in some funny way (sighs!)...haha

So a big THANK YOU to all you lovely people. Have a joyous moment in the amazing journey called life... .....You folks have truly been Legen-wait for it-dary a.k.a Legendary in every sense of the world !! (The how I met your mother fever! lol) :P

* A special call out to my best friend Suprina Ghimire (Who'd kill me if I didn't do this ! ;) ) for making my life worthwhile. You have made my life thousand folds better by just being there for me at all times....A huge THANK YOU to you (wink, wink)

So, people that's all for today. Live long and prosper that's all I can say :D
Amen!



F.R.I.E.N.D.S ...... :D







Comments

  1. Chistiano ronaldoAugust 5, 2012 at 8:51 AM

    é muito bom .... adoro!

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    1. Anusha NeupaneAugust 5, 2012 at 9:11 AM

      obrigado :)

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    2. Padhante Manche :PAugust 5, 2012 at 9:19 AM

      Bonjour Madame Anusha votre blog est tout à fait populaire de nos jours ...: P de toute façon très beau travail keep it up ... bonne chance pour votre avenir ...: P

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    3. Anusha NeupaneAugust 5, 2012 at 9:33 AM

      vous remercier monsieur.. ;)

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    4. Padhante Manche :PAugust 6, 2012 at 8:46 AM

      vous êtes les bienvenus madame...:P

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  2. AnonymousAugust 17, 2012 at 6:26 AM

    hehe..thanks mayalu <3 ma ta makhhai :) ae ani ramro lekhiches ^_* -supu

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  3. AnonymousMay 22, 2014 at 10:34 PM

    choice of words and sentences are very well linked up. its always good to appreciate people who makes difference in your life and you have very nicely done it. Keep it up :) .. Arun Pokhra Lake, Nepal

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